In this episode of Wannabe Clutter Free, Deanna Yates sits down with Shannon Leyko, author, podcast host, and minimalist expert, to discuss the emotional challenges of decluttering, especially when sentimental items and family dynamics are involved. Shannon, a mother of three and military wife, shares her deeply personal journey of simplifying her life while balancing family, loss, and the emotional weight of possessions tied to loved ones.
Together, Shannon and Deanna tackle the tough conversations we often face with family members—whether it’s about gifts that don’t fit our needs or sentimental heirlooms we feel obligated to keep. They explore why it’s so hard to let go, the guilt many of us feel, and how we can shift our mindset to embrace minimalism with intention and grace.
Whether you’re just starting your decluttering journey or you’re already on the path to a simplified life, this episode provides practical advice and relatable stories to help you move forward. Shannon offers tips on involving kids in the decluttering process, how to handle unwanted gifts, and the importance of making space for what truly matters without feeling judged or overwhelmed.
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About Shannon Leyko:
Shannon Leyko (LAY-KOH) is an author, podcast host, mother of three, and military wife. Her book, You’re Completely Normal, debuted as an Amazon Top 50 hot new release in 2020, and her podcast, Paring Down, has reached the top 5% of all podcasts in under a year. She is a former Miss New York in the Miss America Organization, former professional vocalist, and was also a reality television development producer before working in social media and on her podcast. Her online platform, Paring Down, is built around helping people declutter their homes and schedules in order to make room for what matters-- without the judgment, shame, or comparison.
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