The Nightly 10-Minute Declutter Routine Every Busy Mom Needs (Ep 308)

About the episode

Decluttering is the easy part. Keeping it that way is the hard part. I’m giving you the 10-minute nightly routine my family uses to keep our home from filling back up.


You can declutter your entire home and still end up right back where you started. I know because I’ve lived it. This episode is the piece that makes everything permanent. I’m teaching you the closing shift, the exit bin, and why stacking habits beats scheduling them every time.

Key Takeaways

  • Why I went from owning almost nothing to filling up a house, and what finally broke the cycle

  • The restaurant-inspired closing shift my family does every night

  • What the Lightning Tidy is and how to make it fun for your whole family

  • Why the one-in-one-out rule doesn’t work (and what to do instead)

  • The habit stacking trick that makes routines stick forever


The Importance of a Daily Routine

Clutter can easily creep back into our lives, especially after we’ve worked hard to clear it out. This routine is not about achieving a perfect home; it’s about creating a reset that’s sustainable and manageable. It’s about daily maintenance that prevents deep cleaning from becoming a daunting task.

Part 1: The Lightning Tidy

The first part of our nightly routine is called the Lightning Tidy. This occurs right after dinner and involves the whole family.

Here’s how it works:

  • Involve Everyone: Get everyone involved, including kids. Put on some upbeat music to make it fun!

  • Set a Timer: Spend about five minutes putting things back in their designated spots. Shoes by the door, toys put away, and the dining table cleared off.

  • Make it a Game: Turn tidying into a race. Whoever puts away the most items before the song ends wins a small reward, like choosing the next family movie.

Part 2: Closing the Laundry Loop

Laundry can easily pile up if not managed properly. Here’s how to keep it under control:

  • Four-Step Process: Remember that laundry isn’t done until it’s washed, dried, folded, and put away. After the Lightning Tidy, check on laundry and move it through the loop.

  • Keep It Simple: Avoid starting a new load late in the evening. Instead, focus on completing the current load to keep the routine manageable.

  • Take Breaks: After tidying and managing laundry, take a short break. Enjoy some dessert or watch a quick show to make it feel less like a chore.

Part 3: The Kitchen Close

The final part of your daily routine is the Kitchen Close:

  • Final Dishes: After enjoying your break, handle any leftover dishes. Load the dishwasher and wipe down countertops.

  • Reset Signals: Set out clean kitchen towels as a signal that the kitchen is closed for the night. This helps create a fresh start for the next day.

  • Start Fresh: By doing this, you ensure that when you wake up, your kitchen is ready for a new day, making mornings less stressful.

The Exit Bin: A Simple Clutter Solution

In addition to your daily routine, consider implementing an Exit Bin:

  • What It Is: Place a bin near your front door to collect items that need to leave your home. This can be clothes that no longer fit, duplicates of kitchen gadgets, or anything you don’t want anymore.

  • Weekly Routine: Once a week, take the bin and drop it off at a donation center. This keeps your home clutter-free without feeling overwhelming.

  • Accountability: If the bin sits for too long, it becomes just another pile of clutter. Set a specific day each week to empty it.

Conclusion

By adopting this 10-minute daily routine, you can effectively keep clutter at bay without feeling overwhelmed. Remember, the goal isn’t a perfect home but a reset home that’s ready for each new day. Implementing these small habits will make a significant difference in your living space.

Want to dive deeper into decluttering? Check out my previous posts for more insights!

Frequently Asked Questions

How long does the Lightning Tidy take?

The Lightning Tidy takes about five minutes each evening, making it a quick and efficient way to keep your space organized.

What should I do if my family doesn’t want to participate?

Try making it fun by playing music or turning it into a game. Involving everyone in a light-hearted way can encourage participation.

How often should I empty the Exit Bin?

Aim to empty your Exit Bin once a week to maintain a clutter-free home and avoid feeling overwhelmed by piles of items.

Is it necessary to involve kids in the routine?

Yes! Involving kids teaches them responsibility and helps them understand the importance of keeping a tidy home.

Can I adjust the routine to fit my schedule?

Absolutely! Feel free to modify the routine to fit your family’s rhythm and lifestyle.


Music: Fresh Lift by Shane Ivers - https://www.silvermansound.com


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About Deanna Yates

Based in San Diego, CA, Deanna helps high-achieving moms clear the clutter from their homes and lives.

Through coaching, courses, summits, and her top-ranked Wannabe Clutter Free podcast, she supports modern women in building organized, peaceful homes where they can thrive.


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